Friday, July 3, 2015

MANY NIGERIAN FAMILIES INTENTIONALLY OR INADVERTENTLY DESTROY THE LIVES OF THEIR CHILDREN AND SIBLINGS---


I have observed the evil thriving in Nigeria because of the dependency of parents on children and siblings on siblings.  I know that the cause of this atrocity is rooted in our culture.  

A culture that promotes the conception of many children, even without the financial ability to rear the children.  The motivation is rather for a couple to conceive many children believing that some of the children will grow up to support them and even cater to them.  Many parents in Nigeria do not understand the concept of family planning.  Most couples do not even consider their unemployed status and other deficiencies before jumping into marriage, simply because they can depend on family members and friends for their upkeep.  DO YOU MARRY AND BEAR CHILDREN FOR OTHER PEOPLE TO PAY FOR YOU???

Observe a culture where people have not an iota of pride and so unabashedly beg for money at any given opportunity.  I have seen the unemployed reject jobs that they deem beneath them because of the unattractive conditions or the low payment it offers, yet they are not too proud to beg others for money, as if it's more appealing.  ISNT IT RATHER SHAMEFUL TO BEG??? ISNT IT MORE BENEFICIAL AND DIGNIFYING TO EARN YOUR OWN MONEY, NO MATTER THE AMOUNT AND NATURE OF JOB???

Many young men and women are deprived of their destinies because they have to support their parents and siblings.  Savings and other monies are exhausted, businesses are destroyed, dreams become stagnated, progress is stalled, all because of family.

Girls rush into the wrong relationships and marriages because they need a man that can finance their family members.  Most relationships and marriages now are based on that and not on love.  Girls prostitute their bodies and offer their souls to the devil to solve family problems.  Even married women indulge in extra marital affairs and prostitution to meet up with family demands. 

Women, please know that parents and siblings couldn't care less about the type of sacrifices and danger you risk to help them.  They only show you their pathetic love and respect as long as you are giving them money and then, as soon as you stop, you become their enemies. When you get into any type of trouble they will desert you. They are even the ones to peddle malicious gossips about you. 

For almost one month, I've been counseling a beautiful 27 year old Nigerian girl in America that contracted HIV while prostituting herself to help her family members in Nigeria. I feel nothing less than DISGUST towards all those Nigerian leeches who are destroying the lives of their children and siblings.   Now that she is sick, the same family she sacrificed her life for are mocking her.  Very typical of Nigerians.  This young woman was referred to me for counseling as she was at the verge of committing suicide.

PLEASE CARRY YOUR OWN CROSS.  TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES AND YOUR INDIVIDUAL FAMILY RESPONSIBILITIES AND LEAVE YOUR CHILDREN AND SIBLINGS ALONE.  STOP DESTROYING THEM AND THEIR DESTINIES!
May God forgive you all, in Jesus name I pray...Amen. I love you!  Roar:(

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Monday, June 29, 2015

"CHANGE" IT IS... 30 DAYS OF DORMANCY IN NIGERIAN GOVERNMENT

We sought CHANGE and indeed we needed and still need CHANGE and we are traveling the course of CHANGE in the most ambiguous method.  We have not been clear about the type of CHANGE we need and the right approach, thus we are operating in confusion.

One can only imagine what thoughts whirl through the mind of the president.  The dormant state of the government and the confusion in the nation reveal the difficulty the president is confronting.  The inability of the president to move forward. All stem from the selfish expectations that the president will now come in and save Nigeria.  

The high expectations of Nigerians has put president Buhari in a defensive state.  He has made excuses for all of his campaign promises.  He claims the nature of the 
government as it was when he came into office was so dire that he is looking for the best options going forward. But all of these are what reveals the strength of a good leader.  Having the wisdom, courage and vision to salvage a broken society. 

Clearly there's a lack of trust in building the nation with his party (APC), as witnessed by delays in installing the necessary ministers.  Presumably he is of the mindset that he can do this all by himself?  I think he understands that we are indeed struggling with very bad leaders, which are probably 98% and he cannot even sum up the courage to choose the best of the evils.   

WE MUST PRAY FOR OUR PRESIDENT!  We must pray for God's grace upon him.  WE MUST PRAY FOR NIGERIA!

NIGERIA BECKONS!

May God guide our president, in Jesus name...Amen!  I love you! Roar;)

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Sunday, June 28, 2015

MEN WITH STRAYING EYES


When couples are out on a date, it’s required and more respectful to pay full attention to each other. Men have the tendency to deviate from this tradition. Darling, I’m not saying that women aren’t guilty, but it’s unlikely for a man to see a delicious bottom and not look, it’s like a magnetic force.

Why disrespect the woman with you because of some seductress gliding down the room? Why ruin a beautiful evening because of a stranger who may also be involved?

And even if she’s single; does it mean she’s better than the woman you behold because she’s physically alluring? Would her physical appeal determine a mutual chemistry or compatibility between the both of you?

Aesthetic beauty only equals an instant gratification and lacks enough substance.  Her apple bottom does not reflect her core. Darling, she may also have a bad character… 

How would you really feel if it was your companion embarrassing you in such manner?

There’s nothing wrong with taking a glance at a beautiful person, as long as it’s done with self-control and respect for the company you keep at the time. 
And those that retort in a destructive manner ought to realize that it’s idiotic and also risky to your relationship. That’s if at all there’s any meaning to it.  Even if your date is just a friend, you’re still required to show some level of respect.

It is also embarrassing and could be irritating to the person you admire when you are fixated.


May The Holy Spirit guide you accordingly, in Jesus name I pray, amen. I love you!  Roar:)

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